tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9075597270957694606.post3410770124961590893..comments2023-10-14T08:44:40.104-07:00Comments on Thoughts of a Mood Swinger: Friends and Bipolar DisorderCliveWildhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08969854802631064655noreply@blogger.comBlogger48125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9075597270957694606.post-42594555702618457592019-09-01T07:31:34.064-07:002019-09-01T07:31:34.064-07:00I'm 15 years old. I was born with HIV my mothe...I'm 15 years old. 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I also chat with him on what's app +2348149277967 he tells me how it works then I tell him I want to proceed I paid him so swiftly Colorado post office I receive my herbal medicine within 4/5 working days he gave me guild lines to follow and here am I living healthy again can imagine how god use men to manifest his works am I writing in all articles online to spread the god work of Dr Itua Herbal Medicine,He's a Great Man. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9075597270957694606.post-33047724307258543442017-10-15T07:11:43.342-07:002017-10-15T07:11:43.342-07:00Deja Vu, move on you don't need this abuse in ...Deja Vu, move on you don't need this abuse in your lifeAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9075597270957694606.post-50613018103441393752017-05-22T09:44:44.685-07:002017-05-22T09:44:44.685-07:00Thanks - this is speaks to what I've been thin...Thanks - this is speaks to what I've been thinking about with one of my friends with bipolar disorder. I don't want to give up on her.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9075597270957694606.post-72570909481464397062017-05-19T20:33:49.199-07:002017-05-19T20:33:49.199-07:00Curious did you two ever talk to each other again?...Curious did you two ever talk to each other again? I have a friend just like this. It's been 5 months since my best friend has talked to me. A brief message once or twice just saying she can't deal with things, but seems fine and talks to others. She didn't get pregnant but started meds and then I think stopped them.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9075597270957694606.post-32989400368635295702017-05-15T19:35:23.782-07:002017-05-15T19:35:23.782-07:00Can you give any incite as to why you might still ...Can you give any incite as to why you might still prefer to ignore your friend if they were sticking by you? Just briefly some background. There were things that happened that my friend felt guilty about but I put that to rest. No blame here. I completely understood and said the friendship was the most important thing. Yet it's been almost 5 months with barely any message. It hurts. And I thought it's all part of bipolar, but this long?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9075597270957694606.post-90876926092190424482017-04-04T08:02:20.609-07:002017-04-04T08:02:20.609-07:00nonoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9075597270957694606.post-39750751667426505212017-02-07T21:32:10.854-08:002017-02-07T21:32:10.854-08:00If you had a friend that completely understood you...If you had a friend that completely understood you and wanted to be there for you and proved it, would you still leave them? Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9075597270957694606.post-70049606595207387862015-01-14T06:48:41.383-08:002015-01-14T06:48:41.383-08:00Whatever happened Dolly with your situation?Whatever happened Dolly with your situation?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9075597270957694606.post-21034964505536345542013-09-13T01:14:00.106-07:002013-09-13T01:14:00.106-07:00Thank you all SO very much. I love my husband who ...Thank you all SO very much. I love my husband who is bipolar with all my heart; we have been married 25 years,with 6 children and soon to have our 10th grandchild. It has been a rough, hard road at times, but the man he is,his principles and values and big heart full of love for us all has made it possible for me to forgive and forget and start all over from scratch so many times without ever looking back, because we were in this TOGETHER.<br /> We've now come to a time in our lives, though, that I don't know where to turn or what is the right thing to do,and I hope that some of you who are bipolar can help me understand.<br /> He has been off his meds-no surprise- and I saw the mania swelling, rising, and was helpless to stop him. He took Ambien and my car while I was asleep and drove it while he was asleep, into a huge tree and basically scalped himself . When I saw hi covered in blood,the car totaled, I realized I can no longer protect him from himself while he fights me every inch of the way for trying to "control" him.He could have died, with me doing my best, and him hating me for it. After he was released from the hospital he went to stay with a person who has a family member who is BP, and now will not contact ANY of our children or me.He is not suicidal, I am told he is working as much as he can (the wreck was 2 weeks ago),and is attending church passionately, says he is going to get a place of his own and is never coming home unless God leads him in that direction. In the meantime, I have contacted the marriage counselor he said he wanted me to,offered to go to church with him, but he still refuses to communicate with me directly, and even forbid me to attend the church he attends. The children and grnadchildren are worried,too.<br /> My question is this; is this just part of his cycling,he feels like he can't deal with his real life right now and when he has come down or up or whatever enough to feel like he can face life again,he will want to come on home and be around the ones of us that love him?<br /> IN other words, is avoiding all of us a part of the illness, somehow? A part of the 'running away'? This time there is no alcohol, drugs, or sex involved; it is religion. But the seperation is so very painful. I love him and miss him and want him to hurry and be better,but i don't know whether to "push" or give him space.<br /> Will some of you who understand this from his side of things please help me understand where he is at right now, and what I can do?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9075597270957694606.post-39058879824920735712013-08-21T19:18:06.557-07:002013-08-21T19:18:06.557-07:00Kind of crazy to realize these things. My best fri...Kind of crazy to realize these things. My best friend for many years is bipolar and I am just now realizing it despite her conforming to all the signs. Because she was my childhood friend I accepted all her behavior as normal, especially because I never had alot of friends growing up and appreciated someone being around for me. Now that I am older and have gone through much of her destructive behavior I understand that it was because she has a bipolar disorder. She can be very aggressive and strongwilled, and I know that bringing up her disorder is out of the question. I went back and forth what to do with our friendship as we hold many dear memories together and I have decided to keep her in my life but from a distance. She just moved in with her boyfriend so I can suspect that he bears much of the brunt of her behaviour, and its evil but I just feel relieved most of the time that I dont feel so obligated and attached to her because its exhausting. It makes me sad that there is nothing to do about it because she can be such a nice person and I know she has been through alot and it saddens me that it will be this way until she gets any help. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9075597270957694606.post-88229326813324471122013-04-25T02:02:46.272-07:002013-04-25T02:02:46.272-07:00I have a bipolar boyfriend. At first, things seeme...I have a bipolar boyfriend. At first, things seemed ok. Then the jealousy started to get worse. I basically ended up deleting my facebook which was mostly family members as well as some other accounts. I have lost my ties with friends to isolate them. He has never been able to keep friends. Tonight, he saw someone online that he had confrontations with in the past on my phone. He wanted me to message them and I told him no, that I really didn't need more drama tonight. He took it upon himself to message the person which lead to an online altercation and almost a physical one. I fear for him constantly. I get left with trying to repair damage and get told that I am not supportive. He asked my opinion on why he had trouble making friends and I reluctantly answered. Again, I was told that I was not being supportive. I have been called a sneak, worthless, idiot, moron, and many other names. Getting him to start meds has been an undertaking in itself. It is a tremendous amount of stress. My life has been on hold now for about 6 months and money is running out quickly. I have been giving up my life to take care of him. I love him dearly, but if it keeps at this rate, I will have no means to take care of him. It hurts me to see what he is going through. But it also hurts when your accused of trying to poison them or mess up their computer. I can't remember a day without crying. When you love and care about someone, what can you do? I'm not the type to give up on people and I have seen the loving, caring and compassionate side of him. There are days I go to sleep and hope I don't wake up because of the fear of what the next day will bring. I hope he keeps up with his meds. But I can only hope. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9075597270957694606.post-71724815584264808792013-03-26T06:16:42.078-07:002013-03-26T06:16:42.078-07:00I beg to differ.I beg to differ.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9075597270957694606.post-39142473575260461172013-01-26T11:51:36.347-08:002013-01-26T11:51:36.347-08:00Bipolar is getting thrown around a lot lately and ...Bipolar is getting thrown around a lot lately and just because you can have a bad mood does not make you bipolar and there is just the run of the mill depression. Life is difficult. BP deflect their symptoms on others to make themselves feel less dysfunctional. I have had two friends that were abusive, one even hit me. Trying to explain the demise of a friendship when you are embarrassed to even have to explain the circumstances......like I am the one with the problem. BP can be great friends when they are in a happy state so becoming friends is easy at that point but later when the 'other' side emerges....it can be very, very painful. I am an empath and feel too much for people already but for my own sanity have had to distance myself from them.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9075597270957694606.post-54003205264379114272013-01-15T15:15:25.614-08:002013-01-15T15:15:25.614-08:00I had been diagnosed with bipolar disorder when I ...I had been diagnosed with bipolar disorder when I was sixteen. I went off of lithium the following year and went untreated until October of 2011 when I was admitted to a psychiatric facility. I have been reading thorough some of these comments and there are some things I would like to say... <br />For those of you claiming that you feel your friends are bipolar because they "lie" and "manipulate", I can guarantee you that it is not a trait of bipolar disorder. Your friend just may very well be a manipulative person who lies a lot; a compulsive liar possibly. I believe there is still a stigma with this disorder and I feel people really need to do some research and inform themselves on what the characteristics really are. Lying, manipulating, and complete selfishness are not traits of someone dealing with bipolar disorder... they are traits of selfish people. I have friends like that... and I'm the bipolar one. I'm on the phone or in person talking for hours, or should I say that they (two of my friends) are talking for hours when the only words I can get in are "okay", "yeah", or "uh huh". I am always there to help them, give them money, take their abuse, and listen to their lies. These are toxic people. Never are they there to see how I am or to talk to me, which I never really mind because I tend to be reclusive unless someone really needs me, but they are in fact one sided relationships. The world revolves around them. I ended up cutting most of my ties with one of these "friends" and the other is finally starting to grow up and realize not everything is about her. She's a lot more bearable and more so as the days go on. As a bipolar individual, I have done many things I am not proud of and many things that I am proud of. I'm extremely creative in both my highs and lows and I am proud of that. I am an aggressive manic; that, I am not proud of. And with all of the feelings I feel and the things I do in whichever mood, I have never lied or manipulated. I however have lied about doing laundry and not doing it, or putting the dishes in the dishwasher and not doing it, but then doing those things about five minutes before a certain someone gets home and then laughing about it. Please, people... get your facts straight before blaming everything on bipolar disorder. And I don't know about anyone else, but I become extremely blunt and speak my mind during manic phases; more truthful. All in all, maybe rid yourselves of selfish, one sided relationships. Some people just genuinely believe the world revolves around them and most don't seem to change that belief. Sad, but true. Inform yourselves and stop the stigma. <br /><br />Lyssi <3Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9075597270957694606.post-86938728672154729312013-01-14T14:02:28.462-08:002013-01-14T14:02:28.462-08:00Ive a friend who i'm sure is bipolar 2 (we tal...Ive a friend who i'm sure is bipolar 2 (we talked about it and her therapy visits but never got to the diagnosis). We share everything, she's always there for me and vice-versa (when she's OK). She was OK for a while and we arranged to do things and were just like, as Forrest Gump says, Peas and Carrots again. But, she fell pregnant and had to come off of her meds and since she just spiralled into depression followed by, what I percieve to be, Hypomania. I'm all of a sudden a nobody, the last person she wants to see or talk to. She tried to pull out of the things we arranged to do (which were her idea) and I knew she would. She will have spikes of what I describe as 'false' cherpiness (it's not the real her but it obviously fools everyone else, it;s so fustrating cos Im on my own in seeing it) around EVERYBODY ELSE but, me?, she wont even look at me. I try to act like there's nothing different and I get pushed away, rejected time and time again. I back off and I'll be accused of avoiding her when I try and talk to her again ("you cant just ignore me then expect to be my friend again!"). I try and talk seriously about it and she brushes me off or makes me feel like im a freak just for wanting to talk to her, or that Im interfering, its my fault we dont talk, im accussing her of things, and she doesnt seem to realise, even afterwards, how hurtful and sometimes down right ridiculous what she's saying to me is. It's an impossible task, but I wont give up because it's no more her fault than it is mine and I promised her that Id never give up on her. I remember the scared look on her face when she said there's nothing she could do to help me, she knew what was coming (she was warning me, although I didnt need it). I said that it wouldnt be a problem and not to worry, Im not going anywhere. She cannot help it and I know that the only reason Im singled out is because she feels closest to me (it's either me or her boyfriend that get pushed away). I was the first person she told that she was pregnant (other than her mum and the father) but Im worried I'll be the last to know when it's born. But, more importantly, Im worried about her health and the baby's. I dont know how to confront her. She has never been this distant from me, we've always worked it out but Im scared she'll do something stupid. On top of that her boyfriend all of a sudden doesnt respond to me and we've always got on brilliantly (either she's told him something and to not contact me or they've split up, Im doubting the latter this time round but she is prone to lying when she's like this). I dont know what to do to help her.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9075597270957694606.post-88035491932523539702012-12-27T08:13:13.439-08:002012-12-27T08:13:13.439-08:00Even if she hasn't had the baby yet, she is pr...Even if she hasn't had the baby yet, she is pregnant and the hormones levels change and that makes normal women emotional. I'm sure she is getting delusional because of her hormone changes. <br /><br />She is at severe risk of post partum depression from the sounds of it. Talk to her husband or something and let him know your concerns about her and the friendship. She needs a doctor to help her get through this.<br /><br />There is a company online that helps people with bipolar through pregnancy<br /><br />www.truehope.com They have natural supplements and phone assistance. You could talk to someone on that phone line about your friend.<br /><br />www.truehope.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9075597270957694606.post-81457469943397276802012-12-27T08:09:10.629-08:002012-12-27T08:09:10.629-08:00YOUR FRIEND HAD A BABY AND IS DELUSIONAL BECAUSE t...YOUR FRIEND HAD A BABY AND IS DELUSIONAL BECAUSE the hormones and lack of sleep are making her crazy.<br /><br />That will change when the baby gets older and her sleep patterns become normal. <br /><br />After having a baby, women with bipolar are affected severely. <br /><br />She probably feels guilty for not being able to handle it and she projects that on you in her delusional state.<br /><br />I wouldn't give up on her for that because she will become normal once her sleep patterns become normal.<br /><br />MEdications do not work for bipolar when a person loses sleep or if you put them under stress - mental or physical stress.<br /><br />Just wait till she becomes normal again and email her and tell her that you think her hormones and lack of sleep might be affecting her and that you are open to being her friend if she decides to maintain the friendship in the future. leave it open.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9075597270957694606.post-81976596577051762462012-12-27T07:58:25.289-08:002012-12-27T07:58:25.289-08:00Lying is not one of the symptoms of bipolar disord...Lying is not one of the symptoms of bipolar disorder.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9075597270957694606.post-48454050214051102042012-12-27T07:53:04.759-08:002012-12-27T07:53:04.759-08:00The only thing you can do with a person who is bip...The only thing you can do with a person who is bipolar is be there for them when they are sane and avoid them when they are not sane. That is not being a fairweather friend. That is being realistic. If they start being verbally mean - Walk out the door or HANG UP the phone on them. Don't be there and listen to them rant. It won't be helping a psychotic person to be a punching bag for them. Phone them up and if they sound normal on the phone for ten minutes, then go and visit them. If they don't, then don't visit them. Visit them if they are in the hospital sane or not because that is a controlled environment and they will remember you for that later and appreciate it greatly. Detach with love people but stick around. They might hate you for not being there when they are manic, but when they are sane (if they are considerate of you) they will understand and accept those terms of the friendship.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9075597270957694606.post-64216922232516455432012-12-27T07:46:25.874-08:002012-12-27T07:46:25.874-08:00I have bipolar disorder and when i'm manic,I a...I have bipolar disorder and when i'm manic,I am mean verbally, but I do not lie. I never lie when manic. I don't think being manic will make you lie. What do you think people?<br /><br />I think your friend has other issues on top of the bipolar.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9075597270957694606.post-38948750229694625942012-12-13T00:18:53.996-08:002012-12-13T00:18:53.996-08:00I can relate to a lot of the things that I have re...I can relate to a lot of the things that I have read on here. I have a friend that is diagnosed with bipolar disorder. He has been a good friend at times. Its difficult though because I feel like it is one sided when it comes to being supportive emotionally. I listen to him a lot and I dont mind some of the time. Sometimes though, I need to care for myself and I feel like I cant be around him because its draining. <br /><br />It is hard to understand, not being able to control his emotions or actions when hes fired up. I cant help think that learning those skills through mindfulness or CBT or something would help a lot and that the Psychiatrists focus too much on medication. Of course medication is important to keep him and those around him safe and as an initial treatment. I often get the feeling though, that it is partly a lack of skills that he didn't develop for whatever reason. It often seems like he is so self focussed that he cant see outside of himself and his thoughts. *Sigh* it is always such a roller coaster ride. I want to be supportive but I dont know if its in either of our best interests to have a friendship that is unbalanced like that. I wonder if it makes it worse for him to be friends with me when I have to take breaks all the time so Im not drained. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9075597270957694606.post-90959251417648547832012-09-29T09:25:34.820-07:002012-09-29T09:25:34.820-07:00Heres what I think-just my thoughts…sounds a littl...Heres what I think-just my thoughts…sounds a little blunt…but…..She needs help, true, but neither you or your son should be subjected to this behavior, it can be damaging to his emotional growth. He may need his mum, but asks your self, is she really there right now?<br />Support your partner into getting therapy, and rehab, where they can help her. <br />I would suggest you ask her to stay in a motel or flat until such time as she had got some help. But this may not work because she will go to this other bloke. Maybe talk to some of her family or friends and see if they can help with a place to stay until such time she a little more stable. Coz As much as she wants to be around part of her is pulling away. Just remember its not her fault it’s the bi polar, but this still doesn’t mean its healthy for you or your son to be picking up the pieces in this way. If this were me… I would not have her coming and going, as this will be confusing to your son. I would try to arrange set visit times once she is a little clearer. I’m sure she truly loves her son, and she cares for you, which is why she came back to you both, deep down she will let you help her, it will take time and no doubt a lot of arguments. Take it slowly and calmly, no accusing her. Maybe offer to book her into a rehab style retreat for a week to help her sort her head out, while she’s there the therapist can advise her further etc. If nothing changes after you have tried everything, I would also suggest getting custody of your son.<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9075597270957694606.post-51123380195166866272012-09-16T05:03:26.596-07:002012-09-16T05:03:26.596-07:00You've had to face a very difficult situation:...You've had to face a very difficult situation: to stay with someone you care about and be poisoned by their toxicity, or to live with the guilt of leaving them on their own. What I am wondering is how you managed to make that choice, because it is one that I am trying so hard to make now.<br /><br />I met an incredible young man in January - he was smart, cynical, attractive, well-read... and had a girlfriend. I developed a crazy crush, and stood by him when his girlfriend dumped him in February. At that point he seemed a broken-hearted but kind romantic, and his hopelessness drew me to him (I like caring for people).<br /><br />Over the months I grew to love him more, but the closer we became as friends, the more verbally abusive he got. He regressed from "talk to you tomorrow :) xx" (March) to "stop being such a fucking moron" (August). He told me once that he was "manic depressive", but we never spoke of it afterward - just as I told him I had a crush on him three months ago, but we never talked about it.<br /><br />Now I'm one of a handful of friends he has left. I console him when he's sad, rejoice with him during his rare moments of 'normalcy', stand and take it when he becomes verbally abusive, and stay awake at night when he's drinking and needs to text someone. He used to be so much kinder to me, but it seems as though us being closer has become a reason for him to be 'allowed' to treat me cruelly.<br /><br />So the problem is... I can feel my affection for him turning into guilt. Guilt that I can't leave him on his own; guilt that I can't always be there for him (I'm at uni; he dropped out); guilt that no matter what I do, he will always be mad at me. Guilt that I cannot do more for him, and guilt that I am allowing him to make me feel bad about myself when I know I’m not a bad person – merely his punching bag.<br /><br />I want so much to be there for him, but while he complains that he has no friends, he has told me repeatedly that he doesn't care about me (this is usually when I tell him that I don't want to be mad at him and he tells me "so, leave. You have nothing to bargain with because I. Don't. Care.") so I don't know how I can stay.<br /><br />I've suffered depression in the past, and constantly worrying about him is bringing back my early symptoms (listlessness, withdrawing from friends/family, feeling anxious, extended periods of crying/feelings of hopelessness). I love him, but he has never felt the same way about me as I have about him, and it's becoming harder and harder to remain resilient while he breaks my heart weekly.<br /><br />How has it affected you and your friend, letting them go? Is there a way to find a balance between being there for them, but not having their illness consume your life as well as theirs? I don't want to 'friend dump' him, but I can tell that I'm losing myself and my own friends by staying with him.Pendulumnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9075597270957694606.post-41276536814466556102012-08-21T16:49:32.033-07:002012-08-21T16:49:32.033-07:00I am a mature gay man who dated a guy with BP I- a...I am a mature gay man who dated a guy with BP I- at the time I was caregiver from my Mom with Alzheimer's (he never gave me any emotional support) Increasingly he grew more cold- and when we where together socially with others would put me down. As my mother was dying he dumped me- without explanation. Never called me to see how I was. Came to my mothers service and was rude to me.<br /><br />I recently saw him again. He either has gone off his meds- or they stopped working. We met at a restaurant- he was very nasty- rude, insulting- and narcissistic. I suffer from Generalized Anxiety disorder- and take medication- I have worked helping others all my life- but this person needs to stop hurting others- and using excuses for for himself. I am a tolerant person- but I can only take so much.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9075597270957694606.post-31414560985383983112012-08-19T13:54:32.279-07:002012-08-19T13:54:32.279-07:00My ex girlfriend is a untreated bipolar sufferer. ...My ex girlfriend is a untreated bipolar sufferer. About 3 months ago I caught with a bloke she just met that night. She flipped out at me and moved into this blokes place. She leaves me and her 2 and a half year old boy who she loved more then anything in the world. She starts drinking a lot getting into fights shes turned into the person she hated. Now she shows up after 3 months asking for my help saying she not right in the head. I love her so much I take her back in and she keeps running off to this bloke and coming back. She only been back a week!! Its like she stuck between 2 worlds the one with our family and the world she is punishing herself in. She come to me for help saying she needs me but she can't let go of this rubbish life she started. What can I do I love her do much and my sin needs a mum.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com